How To Find Yours. Of all the things that affect our sexual satisfaction, the most important element is sexual confidence. By that I mean knowing not only that you're desirable but also that what you bring to a sexual encounter is likely to be highly valued by your partner. Not surprisingly, sexually confident women seem to be more sexually active and have a whole lot more fun while they're at it. That doesn't mean they confuse quantity with quality. What sets the sexually confident woman apart is that she's relaxed.
After things are heating up, there are a few obvious places you absence your partner to hit. But after it comes to erogenous zones—those crazy-sensitive hot spots that can take you from zero to gotta-have-it-right-now—your lips, nipples, and genitals barely scratch the apparent. Your body is covered in abundantly sensitive areas you may never allow even thought to explore. To abide things up a notch in the bedroom, venture into some new erogenous zone territory. If you're a collar person, you know it.